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36-item localized pilotFor CouplesMost PopularNeed for PresenceOffering PresenceNeed for Validation

How Do You Care? A Give-and-Receive Preference Test

Free public beta · For self-reflection only

About this assessment

About this assessment

How You Like to Give & Receive Care organises your answers into observable dimensions for reflection on current behaviours and preferences. Wording and interpretation will improve with user feedback.

Assessment mode: Structured self-reportDimensions: 12Questions: 36
Quick overview

Quick answer before you start

This result reflects only your self-reported answers in this session. It is not a diagnosis, professional advice, a population norm, or a comparison between markets.

  • Personalized result summary
  • Strengths and blind-spot cues
  • You want a clearer starting point before reading a full report

What version is this?

A free public beta. Items and wording may change as feedback and evidence accumulate.

How can I report a wording or cultural issue?

Email legal@diahu.com with the assessment name, language, item number and suggested wording.

Scale and localization

What this assessment can and cannot support yet

Item coverage, language adaptation, and validation evidence are tracked separately. A translated page is not treated as a validated local scale.

Item source
Original Diahu scenarios36 items
Localization
Language and cultural review pendingNot for ranking countries or language groups
Validation
No local reliability or validity sample yet36 items+
Score boundary
No verified population norms; no percentile or population rankingFree reflection result only for now
Dimensions

Core dimensions

This assessment does not stop at a single score. It breaks the pattern into dimensions so you can see what is actually driving the result.

Need for Presence
Offering Presence
Need for Validation
Offering Validation
Need for Reliability
Offering Reliability
Need for Engagement
Offering Engagement
Need for Safe Closeness
Offering Safe Closeness
Need for Repair
Offering Repair
Best for

Best for

Explore attachment patterns, communication habits, and compatibility signals that shape close relationships.

  • You want a clearer starting point before reading a full report
  • You plan to apply the result to real decisions or conversations
  • You prefer insight with context instead of a one-word label
This result separately organizes which responses matter to you and how you report offering care over the past three months. The tracks cannot be subtracted or used to infer another person’s needs, experience, compatibility, or relationship quality. Closeness and touch require consent. Threats, coercion, control, stalking, violence, or repeated disregard of refusal are not care-style differences; prioritize safety and qualified local support.